My first lesbian experience (part II)

Now you do want me to share my impressions my first lesbian experience made on me….Well, I don't know whether you like it or not, but I am not going to describe everything we did and I will tell you what conclusions I have made from my first lesbian experience.

1.Lesbian sex implies a great deal of oral pleasure. A lesbian perfectly knows that tongue is much better than a finger, or even a penis. Laura indulged my pussy so gently and so long that I orgasmed for about three times - well, I don't quite remember…but this was the longest oral pleasure in my life. My clitoris has never been so gently caressed, even my favorite clitoral vibrator did not give me so much pleasure.

By the way, a lesbian certainly knows much more about female physiology than a man. Unfortunately, most men do not know what the clitoris is and what should be done with it. A lesbian is not going to search for clitoris for hours. As well she is not going to torture it with too much pressure and too industrious liking. I always wondered: why do men think that the clitoris should be pressed as strongly as possible? Clitoris is not the same as penis, why don’t they understand this simple fact?

2. Lesbian sex is much longer than heterosexual. A lesbian does not have erection which weakens in the end of the intercourse. This means that lesbian sex can last for as long as two women loving each other want. So many women complain about the fact that their partners ejaculate too early! Do try lesbian sex and you will see that sex really can be as long as you wish!

3. Lesbian sex is much more tender than heterosexual. Lesbians know that slight touches are much more pleasurable for a woman, than squeezing and stroking with palm. Men are not aware of this fact and they do tend to press and squeeze your most sensitive zones.

4. Lesbians use more sex toys than heterosexuals. This is quite natural. First of all lesbians more often use sex toys due to the fact that women love vaginal stimulation but do not have penis for providing it. So lesbians use such sex toys as dildos and vibrators for penetration. Secondly, a lesbian will never get angry when seeing her girlfriend play with a sex toy. Do you remember, I told you about Laura's husband who hated her playing with dildos and vibrators? A lesbian does not have to prove her manliness and does not take a vibrator for a rival.

A lesbian will never be so foolish. She knows what her girlfriends needs and will give her this pleasure. By the way, lesbian use not only dildos and vibrators, they use plenty of other sex toys, such as anal toys, some BDSM accessories, sensual lingerie, nipple toys and many other female sex toys. They want to experience the whole range of sensations sex toys can give them!

5. A lesbian will never make you pregnant and she is much less likely to infect you with an STD. This is one more advantage of lesbian sex! What to pregnancy, you certainly understand what I mean. What to STDs, lesbian sex implies much less danger as it rarely implies contact with body fluids. Laura taught me that sex toys can never be shared. To enjoy one and the same dildo we used a condom, and I did not have to talk Laura into using a condom, as she understood this was necessary for us both! I do think that a woman understands another woman much better than a man!

6. A lesbian knows that her girlfriend needs not only sex. What is more, she, herself does not need only sex. They both need communication, sharing emotions and impressions they do need intimacy created by sincere conversation. Unlike men, they do not share information - facts are not so important for them. They need to be together and they need to feel their being similar to each other. Most men cannot understand this desire. They separate business from just talking. Men and women are so different….Now I understand that lesbians have much to teach men. But do men what to be taught? I still don't know, but I do think they should.

 My first lesbian experience

As you understand here I want to share the impressions my first lesbian experience made on me. In the very beginning I want to make it clear - I am not a lesbian. What is more I am married and I do enjoy sex with my husband…as well as I enjoyed it with other men before marriage…But I tried lesbian sex, and I guess it will become a part of my sex life.

How does it happen? Once I got greeting card from one of my girlfriends Laura whom I hadn't seen for an awful lot of time. I learned two interesting things from this card : first, Laura divorced from her husband, and second - she was a lesbian. I took the first message for a piece of news and the second one for confession.

I must say that I knew nothing about lesbians. I thought that all lesbians could be divided into two types: those who hated all men living in this world and porn stars who passionately (or sometimes even funnily) pretend to be making love before the camera.

Laura was not a bit similar to these women. I had known her since childhood, we spent much time together and even slept in one room. Of course, before she married David we very often got together and discussed our boyfriends….Was she a lesbian than? I refused to believe it…And I began thinking about lesbians…Who they are? Why do they find lesbian sex more enjoyable than making love to a man????

I was browsing the Internet the whole night. I read all articles about lesbians, about their relationships….and of course about their sex…I could not imagine what they could do in the bed, as I was used to sexual intercourse with a man who had penis….I could not even imagine that sex without someone who does not have penis could be enjoyable….

But I realized that there were very many ways through which lesbians could please each other. How could I forget about cunillingus, fingering, sex toys? Well, I use sex toys, truly speaking I have an entire collection of various sex toys: dildos, vibrators, vaginal balls…But foolishly enough I did not know that lesbians used them for making love to each other.

One sex toy especially surprised me much. This was a double ended dildo, and I even saw a picture in which two lesbians were sharing this sex toy….This looked very arousing….And I decided I should try lesbian love. I dared to call Laura and invite her to dinner (my husband was gone on business). Laura said I had better come to her place. And I agreed. And I came to her.

Well, I am not going to describe everything we did….Of course, we did not began making love at once. First she told me much about how she realized she was a lesbian, about her relationships with women, about her fights with husband who did not want her to date her girlfriends….He was a very jealous man, he even got angry when he realized Laura used sex toys while he was gone.

Instead of being glad that his wife did not have sex with another man, he was even about to beat his wife when he realized she used a sex toy instead of his penis…Now I understand why she decided to divorce from him.

We were talking and drinking wine. Step by step our conversation got more and more sincere as Laura saw I was interested in things she was talking about. She showed me the picture of her girlfriend and sex toys she had. I saw she was very glad to feel free, to do everything she wanted.

At that moment I understood why women become lesbians. A woman understands another woman much better than a man, as she knows what a woman wants, , what a woman needs to be happy and pleased both sexually and emotionally….

At that moment I realized: I do want to try lesbian sex. I do want to make love to a person who knows much about my dreams and desires. At least lesbian sex is worth trying. And I tried it….I will tell you about it a bit later. The only thing I will mention now is that it was one of the most wonderful moments in my sex life. Well, it was not a moment, it was a whole night full of love and tenderness.